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Welcome
Welcome to Lisa and Dean’s Wedding Page!!
We are extremely excited to share our wedding plans with family and friends. Please click through the links to learn about us and our plans.
About Us

About the bride
Lisa has lived in Raleigh since birth. She went to college at N.C. State University and now works for the N.C. Department of Public Instruction. Her hobbies include writing screenplays, canoeing with Dean, picnicking, walks around the park, tennis, and relaxing on the beach.
About the groom
Dean works as a software developer for BOWE BELL & HOWELL for the last 14 years. Dean has many hobbies, including running social groups. Dean has lived in 5 states and ended up in North Carolina in the early 80s. Dean went to college at UNC Greensboro and moved back to the Raleigh area after college.
How we met
Dean was Organizer of The Raleigh-Durham Singles Meetup group. The 20s/30s had a Happy Hour event at Tavola Rossa (now the Crabtree Tavern) and Lisa attend as her first event. Lisa was very excited to meet Dean and spent the evening smiling and standing near him, trying to talk to him all night long. Lisa was unusually outgoing and her efforts were noticed by Dean. After months of attending events, Dean scheduled one event that only Lisa signed up for and attended. The event was a dinner event at Neo Asia, so even thought is was a singles event, it felt like a date. When they finished eating, they stepped outside and it was snowing. There was a very awkward moment as to what Lisa and Dean should do next. Lisa wanted to kiss Dean, Dean wasn’t sure what to do. So, after they said goodnight, Dean asked Lisa out on a date for Valentine’s Day and Lisa gladly said, “Yes”.
Our Proposal
Date of event
How we got engaged
Since Dean and Lisa had already agreed on getting married, it was up to Dean to surprise Lisa with an engagement.
Dean and Lisa started going on picnics in the spring and one of the first places they had a picnic was the North Carolina Museum of Art in Raleigh. The Museum of Art has a “art trail” that contains large sculptures, including a set of three rings made from the dirt that they stand on. Near this sculpture is where Lisa and Dean had their picnic. Dean’s plan was to have a picnic at the same spot and pop the question to Lisa.
Dean first had to convince Lisa to go to the Museum, so he told her it would be a good time for him to meet the Maid of Honor, Louisa, and for her to meet the Best Man, Jason. Louisa and her husband were to meet Dean and Lisa at the Art Museum at 11:30 am. Meanwhile, Dean had Jason and another friend Adam, setup a picnic basket and blanket near one of the rings. Dean had bought a big white wicker picnic basket and had champagne and a small radio playing inside of it. Adam would take pictures of Lisa and Dean walking down the trail to the picnic basket. Jason also brought rose pedals to throw on the blanket.
After a little delay and convincing Lisa not to go into the museum, Dean told Lisa, Louisa and her husband David that they were waiting on Jason to arrive. He then suggested that they walk down to where Lisa and he had their picnic. As they walked down the trail, Dean tried to distract the rest of the group so they wouldn’t see Jason start the music and Adam taking photos. As we got closer to the ring, they noticed Adam and Jason, but thought that they were a photography group. When Dean tried to walk Lisa to the picnic blanket, Lisa wouldn’t go, because she thought it was someone else’s picnic. So, Dean had to open the picnic basket to reveal the ring box. After moving Lisa around to a better camera angle, Dean proposed :
Lisa,
I want to have all of my picnics with you.
I want to spend all my time on the beach with you.
I want to take all my hikes in the woods with you.
I want to have all my new adventures with you.
Will you marry me?
Lisa nodded her head and mumbled “Yes” through her tears of joy. Dean opened champagne for everyone and the toasted the celebration.
Lisa and Dean spent the next 15 minutes taking photos and then the entire group went to the Art Museum restaurant Iris for lunch. The hostess gave the group champagne.
Ceremony

Information for our guests
The ceremony will be a private ceremony for just family. Lisa and Dean want a small and simple ceremony, but will provide a reception party for all of their friends after the wedding.
The ceremony will be at North River United Methodist Church, which is the home church of Dean’s oldest sister, Jenny, and her family. Dean’s oldest niece Jacyln is getting married on the 9th, which is why Dean and Lisa chose the perfect date of 10/10/10 for their wedding day.
Driving directions
North River United Methodist Church is in Beaufort, NC. It is located on Highway 70, just outside of town.
Wedding Party
Our wedding party
The very small wedding party consists of Louisa as the Maid of Honor and Jason as the Best Man.
The Maid of Honor
Louisa Dang has been friends with Lisa since their days in the English department at NCSU. Louisa worked for the department’s literary journal, and Lisa worked down the hall in the academic affairs office. Both were students of creative writing, and their love of writing was the foundation of their friendship. Louisa is now married to a great guy named David in Burlington and they now have a beautiful baby daughter Fiona. Lisa and Louisa often bounce story ideas off each other. Louisa is working on her mystery novel.
The Best Man
Jason Brooks has been Dean’s best friend every since Dean arrived in North Carolina at the end of Dean’s 4th grade year. Jason found out that there was a new family in the neighborhood, so he went over to proclaim his standing in the neighbor pecking order. Unfortunately for Jason, Dean didn’t care an ounce of who Jason thought he was. They were best friends ever since. Jason and Dean were a awesome football and basketball duo, dominating the neighborhood at the sports. Through middle school, high school and college, Jason and Dean kept in touch and remained friends, even while attending different schools. They shared residences after returning back to Raleigh and through thin and thick (lately thick) have been good friends. Therefor, it is no wonder why Dean would choose his oldest and best friend as his Best Man.
Honeymoon

About our honeymoon
Lisa loves the beach. Dean loves to go on a cruise. Lisa and Dean’s honeymoon will be on a cruise in the Caribbean. They will spend 5 nights traveling from Miami to the Grand Turks and then on to the Bahamas aboard the Carnival ship Destiny.
| DAY | PORT |
|---|---|
| Sun | South Beach Miami, Fl |
| Mon | Miami, FL |
| Tue | At Sea |
| Wed | Grand Turk, Turks & Caicos Islands |
| Thu | Half Moon Cay, Bahamas |
| Fri | Nassau, Bahamas |
| Sat | Miami Fl |
Last night Chris, Lisa and I traveled to Greensboro to the 
The contest started at 7 pm on Friday, so I had to get to downtown Greensboro by 6 pm to register. When I arrived, parking was a little slim, so I parked down the street a good bit, because I thought the building address was 320 S. Elm, but it was 520 S. Elm. Luckily for me, I had plenty of time. The registration place was like being in a basement and it was crowded. There were 35 teams competing in Greensboro. I talked to a group of teenage boys who were also doing their first 48 Hour Film Project movie. Because of the crowd, it seemed a little chaotic and disorganized. At one point, they told people to make sure we had tickets for the right team. The teenagers looked at me in the same confused look that I had about figuring that out. However, we did have the right tickets for the team we were on, Team A. After a few announcements, we were allowed to draw our movie genres. The teenagers pulled “Buddy Movie”, then another team pulled “Film La Femme” and I pulled “Road Movie”. Before heading to Greensboro, I managed to recruit three actors to the team. Three female actors. So, we were really hoping to get the female centered genre “Film La Femme” or the “Buddy Movie”. Since Chris, the editor/camera man/owner of the shooting location, had setups to mount a camera to a vehicle, we were also hoping to get the “Road Movie”. Apparently it was my lucky drawing day, we got the “Road Movie”.
After each of the groups drew their genres, they read out the elements. For a character; Marla Dockery, Professional Organizer/ Clutter Coach. For the prop; a bandanna. For the line; “You think you know everything.” As soon as I got the elements and knew that they had finished making annoucements, I headed out the door with the other eager teams. On the way to the car I called Chris and Lisa to get everyone started brainstorming on ideas. As I was driving down the road, I came up with an idea of having a final line of “You think you know everything, but my hair is blue.” The mother of the youngest of the actresses called to tell me that they were running late and I asked her if she wouldn’t mind turning Tara-Nicole’s hair blue. She let me know that she would pick up some blue hair extensions and would see me later that night. I continued down the road to Chris’s house in Efland thinking about lines and possible a story line.
Wake up time was before 7 am, because we had a call at 7:30 am. Chris and I zoomed out to Wal-Mart to get some snacks and other odds and ends, trying to get back before the actors and crew showed up, but didn’t. I sat down with actors and started going over the lines and Chris started setting up the shooting equipment. We sent out one crew to get the road shots as the rest did the busy work. The practice was going fairly well and the actors really like the lines. Kerry and Laurie seemed a little type cast for the roles, but it was purely by accident. After having to send out the camera crew 2 more times to get the road shots, the trailer was ready for some run practices on the set. When the crew got back from the last shooting of the road, we took a lunch break as the actors got their makeup ready.
During story-boarding, we ended up having 50 shots. To make things difficult, the trailer wasn’t very large, so we were limited at how we could take the shots. Because I purposely left the stability chucks off of the trailer to provide a dramatic effect, only the actors, camera and microphone could be in the trailer during shooting. Chris setup a remote director’s station so that I could see what was in the shot while sitting under a shelter outside. To communicate, I had a walkie-talkie and another one was placed on the counter with a bunch of junk around it, which basically meant it was now prop in the movie.
At 5:30 am on Sunday, we started getting Erik and Josh around to start working on editing. We needed new road shots because the ones taken on Saturday didn’t work well. While Chris matched up the scenes that Josh and he labeled the night before, Erik and I went through some sounds to find intro music. After narrowing it down to what I was looking for, let him go to find something. Josh had been our boom operator and foley artist on Saturday. I sent him outside for a little bit to get outside noise that was used for the shot of the trailer on the side of the road. When he was finished with that, he joined Erik to pick out the opening sound track as Chris and I continued to go through the scenes to line up audio and to shorten the movie to less than 7 minutes. We had to cut a few lines, which was unfortunate, because they helped with the story. By 2 pm, Chris had everything lined up and started tweaking things with the sound and coloring. I had Josh and Erik make some crash noises and then took Josh back home when we were sure he had nothing left to do.
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